Parental Disagreement

Arguments conflict as normal in my generation too. What happens at home stays at home. And like you said, n the because the shame to speak it out. So then the child internalizes that shame and will lean that there's something wrong with her family. If i can't tell the truth, then i have to put on a front. I have to pretend something else and put on a facade. Imagine if i could do something for my mother, or do something forMy father, or mind the other kids,  and then this conflict won't happen. Because i, as a child, get scared when my parents argue,. Even though we understand neves adults, that that