In this episode of the Church Disrupted podcast, host Jeff Cochran and best-selling author and narcissism expert Chelsea Brooke Cole delve into the complexities of narcissism, particularly within church settings. From how forgiveness is weaponized by narcissists to the dangers of DARVO (you need to know what this is,) they talk about how to recognize narcissistic behaviors in church leaders and how you can respond in healthy and effective ways.
If you have ever been on the other side of narcissism in the church, this is a must watch episode!
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Narcissism in the Church
02:54 The Weaponization of Forgiveness
05:47 Understanding DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender
11:51 The Impact of Narcissism on Relationships
18:00 Systemic Responses to Abuse Allegations
23:49 The Role of Churches in Addressing Abuse
29:55 Forgiveness and Boundaries in Healing
41:51 Navigating Forgiveness and Boundaries
49:25 Understanding Narcissistic Behaviors
57:53 Recognizing Projection and Baiting
01:11:42 Addressing Faux Apologies and Fairness
01:16:27 Creating Safe Church Environments
