Parenting - Is There a Pathway to Estrangement?

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There's a number of different pathways to estrangement. A very common pathway is that the adult child gets married to somebody who's troubled or says, you know, choose me or your parents. And paradoxically or ironically, a certain percentage of adult children cut off contact because they don't know any other way to feel separate from the parent. Many parents have really close confiding relationships with their adult children.

Joshua Coleman is a psychologist and senior fellow at the Council on Contemporary Families. He is the author of Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict.

In this week’s conversation, Yascha Mounk and Joshua Coleman discuss why there is a growing number of estrangements between parents and their adult children, how political identification has increasingly become a source of family conflict, and the best strategies for how estranged parents and adult children can heal their relationships.

This transcript has been condensed and lightly edited for clarity.

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