The idea of transparency is that if you're having a conversation and there's a voice in your head screaming something that you're not saying, you want to find a way to say it. The main idea is that what you want to be as you want to think like i should maye b asked some questions. Maybe the other person knows some things. And you kind of want to be compassionatewhich means you want to imagie that there are also a person,. Sity part, i think, is the much more obvious thing to people. What they don't get as much right away is the transparency part, which is that you need to say things. You need to say the stuff that