The most important lesson from this book, we said its about learning how to deal with people, but really it's also a mirror to yourself. It's about how you must realize these qualities that i describe, and how you have them, and to become self aware. I made so many emotional mistakes now, looking back on it, that i'm ashamed and embarrassed. But in some cases, it's meaning, in some ways, to do that. You could learn from the mistakes of other people. And i hope people do that with this show.