Replace Expectations With Values

Expectations are elusive, right? They're not even real. But our values are things that are more essence driven and less form driven. When we're moving toward our values, then we're not so attached to the form, right? So for example, I'm a woman and most women feel a desire to have a baby. And they put that expectation on it,. But if you look at kind of most women also value love. They value connection. They value creativity. Having a child isn't the only way to do that.