What Happens Overnight When the Stakes Are Low?

If the stuff that happens with your partner is so instantly similar to what you experienced at home, it doesn't take long. It's not the time. The actual echo chamber of what you have in your relationship and how it mirrors what you had in your family of origin. That's what creates the te the intensity. You want to create space for something new to be able to come in,. Otherwise people do sometimes come dead upon arrival. What you're looking for is there motivation on the part of each person to want to do something different.