The Journey to Becoming a Divorce Attorney

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This chapter features a conversation about the speaker's path to becoming a divorce attorney, discussing their initial aspirations, interests, and decision to pursue law school. They also explore the state of divorce in America, discussing statistics, demographics, common reasons for divorce, and the negative outcomes for men. The chapter also delves into the topic of infidelity, challenging stereotypes and emphasizing the vulnerability of both men and women.

If you want insight on how to make love last, you might ask friends, family, a therapist, or a pastor for advice. You probably wouldn't think to turn to a divorce lawyer. But my guest, James Sexton, who does that very job in New York City, says there may be few people who have a better perspective on how to hold a marriage together, than the guy who's got a front row seat to how they fall apart.

James is the author of If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late: A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together, and today on the show he shares what he's learned from overseeing over a thousand divorces that you can use to reverse engineer a relationship that lasts. We discuss the five types of infidelity James sees in his practice and the approach to marriage that will prevent affairs. We then get into common sources of conflict in a marriage, including sex, finances, and kids, and how to address these issues so you never end up in James', or any other divorce lawyer's, office.