The Importance of Perspective in a Breakup

There is no value in being a victim as a strong grounded man. There is always a way to find your power and to grow from this experience whether you chose it or not. But the perspective of a loss can sometimes really change or it can always change so that it then becomes empowering such as in a breakup, you could obviously really look at the relationship and really get real with if this relationship was truly what you wanted or you actually just settling and you didn't have the courage to the breakup.