Are You a Narcissist?

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The idea that you should just be constantly winnilling out problematic relationships because they're upsetting to you is very problematic. So many things today get called abusive, which are just conflictual. And the difference between conflict and abuse is that you conceptualize something as conflictual then there is a remedy for it. But if you consider it as just abuse or narcissism or borderline personality disorder, or any of those things, you've essentially dehumanized the other.

Joshua Coleman is a psychologist and senior fellow at the Council on Contemporary Families. He is the author of Rules of Estrangement: Why Adult Children Cut Ties and How to Heal the Conflict.

In this week’s conversation, Yascha Mounk and Joshua Coleman discuss why there is a growing number of estrangements between parents and their adult children, how political identification has increasingly become a source of family conflict, and the best strategies for how estranged parents and adult children can heal their relationships.

This transcript has been condensed and lightly edited for clarity.

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