The Importance of Setting Realistic Goals

I think part of it is because I spent so much of growing up with the ADHD and undiagnosed and unmedicated. And so for me, I feel like maybe that put me in a position where I don't make long term plans. It's been beaten into me by other people and by myself that I'm going to fuck up those plans anyway. Right? So you internalize it. Even if you don't think you do, you, you internalize those, those perceived failures.