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Decoding Mindf*ckery: Dr. Robin Stern on The Gaslight Effect

A Little Bit Culty

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Pathological Accommodation and the Loss of Self

This chapter explores the concept of accommodating in relationships and how it can lead to pathological accommodation, where one loses too much of oneself. It delves into the socialization of women to be nice and kind, which normalizes accommodating behaviors. It also touches on the struggle of wanting to merge with a partner and the difficulty of walking away when they hold a negative view of oneself.

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