This is not staying strong, my friend. Tis actually breeding weakness. If you give in to the phone, the phone is what you will be giving into more than anything else. You don't want to say no all the time, but if there is a no, it's a no and it ain't going to become a yes no matter what happens. And since you can't fight all the time,. it's actually healthier to say yes five times and no once. Does that make sense? I'm sorry that it came off as harsher, but that's the truth.