
221. The Five Reasons People Pick Fights and Three Things to Do About It
Relationships Made Easy
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The Third Reason Why People Pick a Fight
Sometimes people who seem very... They're creating drama. People don't realize they're doing it generally, but they are self-sabotaging. The second reason I see a lot is that it's all they know. In other words, this is what they saw growing up in their families. You learn the skills you grow up. This is how it is. Really, they just haven't learned another way to communicate. For some people, they see the fighting as engaging. It's the only way they know to really engage someone. Then next thing you know, things have really fallen apart.
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