What's the Repetitive Complaint?

There's different types of self-awareness, there's awareness of our own self. What triggers us? What motivates us? What inspires us? We don't want to forget that part. And the external self-awareness is how do other people experience us? So one of the things you would want to think about is what's the feedback that I tend to get? Is it a frequent complaint? Like if you're in a partnership, is there a repetitive complaint?