Men tend to suppress, avoid or distract their feelings after a break up. Instead of going through the different stages, they launch right into getting back on the apse and dating someone else. Where is the women? Well, typically, they're meeting their friends,. They're talking it out, they're journalling... And so the women tend to be able to feel it really intensely in the beginning. But when they get it, they get over it. Ike: "I am not as inclined to do that"