
221. The Five Reasons People Pick Fights and Three Things to Do About It
Relationships Made Easy
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How to Draw Compassionate Boundaries
You need to keep your standards intact regarding how you allow others to treat you, but they should always, always come from a compassionate loving heart. If someone's picking fights a lot, draw boundaries to them and try to be as compassionate as you can for who they really are. The second thing you can do is what I call stop and feel. You know, here in California, they have, um, earthquakes all the time and there's like stop and roll or something or stop looking roll. So when someone picks a fight with you or if you're watching it, you, but with you, you want to stop the conversation and say what you're feeling. And then I want you
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