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Healing Sexual Trauma in Men - with Therapist Papillon DeBoer

Sex Upgraded

CHAPTER

The Inevitability of Suffering

I could see how that would be a very challenging belief to experience that it's my fault. Something about me is inherently wrong to the point where somebody would want to assault me and actually do it. So you help people rewire that, change that. Slowly. Never try to have an agenda that someone needs to believe differently. I really primarily see myself as of service to their needs, their goals. If we have enough of a trusting relationship, I might gently challenge. Is it okay if I push back a little bit on this? And so I might gently challenged beliefs. But if someone is really holding onto a piece, like that's their prerogative. They get to choose,.

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