How to Deal With a Tough Situation at Work

"I'm a little bit of an analyst and I just am like, life isn't fair," she says. "If you can create some of these heuristics or ... agreements with yourself that feel right to say it doesn't bother me... That's a great way of acceptance." She adds: " Status status might be important to me in one moment; but if I am able to think of it like status doesn't bothers me as long as I have autonomy"