Needs

I think there was a lot of judgment in my family about having needs. I mean, i lot is the time i feel like i don't need a lot. And then when you see how far you are from your own needs lead you with a great sadness that you don't have words to make these connections. So it's a need for connectedness, a need for enjoying people. It's henyo, you're aware o how sad you are that you don’t know the needs well enough to do that,. Don't have the language of needs at would help you to connect with people.