A lot of love is that we're not good without the other person. To be a healthy human, you actually need to figure out how to be good within yourself. Are you afraid of rejection or being abandoned in your relationships? A lot of times this drives codependent behavior. If you're not doing for others, how do you feel about yourself?
When something bad happens to your partner, does it feel like it’s happening to you, too?
Are you compelled to fix what you see as the ‘problems’ in their life?
Do you find areas in which they can improve to help them become ‘better’?
Do you feel like it is your job to prevent them from getting into bad situations?
If you are nodding your head, you might be in a codependent relationship.
In this episode, I break down what codependency is and give you powerful questions you can answer to gain clarity about your codependent behaviors (which is the first step to healing).
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