Episode 309: Understanding Birth Order with David Thomas and Sissy Goff
Raising Boys & Girls
Why Birth Order Matters and Firstborn Traits
Overview of birth-order thinking followed by deep dives on firstborns: eldest daughters' control, anxiety, perfectionism and firstborn boys' achievement, pressure, and separating identity from performance.
We’re jumping back in with another episode in our Parenting Personalities series, and we are excited about this episode! This episode is on Birth Order, and can I tell you something fun that I love to do. When kids come for their very first visit at Daystar, we call it an assessment. We take kids on a tour around the Daystar house, they get to meet the dogs, we get them a snack, and we sit down to talk. We meet with their parents at a later point. During my time with just the kid, I love to not look at the paperwork, which would inform where they would fall in birth order and try and make a guess.
I don’t want to brag on myself, but I’m going to say that I have a pretty high percentage. I have a strong batting average in that space. I think it’s the reality of us having done this work for a lot of decades. Knowing so many of the things we’re about to talk about with birth order and seeing little lumps as watching where kids may drop some crumbs, that’s really fun to do.
Listen in as we will share two primary things about oldest daughters and oldest sons, children who fall in the middle, and the youngest kids in birth order and all of their coping strategies.
Recommended books to read:
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Braver, Stronger, Smarter by: Sissy Goff (For parents with daughters in younger years and elementary grades)
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Brave by: Sissy Goff (For parents of daughters in Middle school and High school)
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Growth Mindset by: Carol Dweck (For parents of 1st born sons and daughters)
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The Gifts of Perfection by: Brene Brown (For parents who are 1st borns)
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Owen Learns He Has What it Takes: A Lesson in Resilience
Lucy Learns to Be Brave: A Lesson in Courage
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