Life is filled with inevitable trauma, death, and tragedy, even if you've had a seemingly normal or average life.
This is because of a significant divide between what your life is like and how you actually feel. It's not just about having a good or bad life; internal variables can dramatically impact someone's emotional experience.
It's important to recognize the validity of your own emotions instead of constantly seeking validation from others. Suppressing your pain only leads to more suffering.
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What's inside:
00:00 The Divide Between Life and Feelings
03:30 Life's Inherent Trauma and Uncertainty
06:56 Acknowledging Life's Fragility and Pain
13:27 The Importance of Self-Validation
Disclaimer: This content is not intended to be a replacement for receiving treatment. It is purely educational in nature. My relationship with you is that of presenter and audience, not therapist and client. But I do care.