You Have to Have a Boundary With Yourself

"I don't know who I am or what I would be without this specific family member friend partner," she says. "Resentment just builds and builds and builds because once you start going on this path of self discovery ... it's really hard to like unsee what you've seen, undo what you've learned" You can still have a relationship with your parent even if they make you feel bad about yourself for bringing up things that are very dear to you.