When people are judging you, can you help me understand, like, pretend i'm an alien and i'm trying to understand how humans work? And when some one makes a comment about you, like, what happens in your mind. What is that metressful? Well, i mean, any time someone, i think, says somthing about you, or like, makes a statement about you,. You're naturally going to want to be defensive. But at the same time, it's important to, like, not be so confident in yourself that you think, you know you're right all the time.