The Process of Not Taking Sex and Penetration

I wish sex wasn't so linear like it's all the buildup to towards penetration yeah which is what we see in movies important. Sex could be this totally fluid like maybe you're just like making out and touching each other and oral sex and just playing sensory play I think relationships are important through break-ups. You have to be with a partner that you actually give a damn about if you want to go deeper. There's nothing worse as much like comes in like rollover fall asleep than not having any aftercare at all. It's amazing work where it's reprocessing things and taking trauma and learning to take care of my own stuff that was going on when I went back