The first one is being hard or just being there. The next is optimism and pep talks. And the fifth is anything that's like, you know, physical. It can be cuddles if that's appropriate but it can also be a giant bag of burritos. Kat Kinsman: I actually hate it when people are optimistic when I'm in the background. So do you want to walk us to the, what the five comfort languages are? Absolutely.