"I was just a exuberant childhood that i didn't know anything was going poorly," she says. Di could appreciate her qualities, our complicated relationships with our mothersheand the thing I couldn't recover from in the moment,. is not that they were geting divorced, it's that she enlisted all of us in banishing him from the home without any consultation. "And i've never recovered, frankly, from that kind of non consultative, ha, ha,ha, decision making and being used as a weapon against this man whom i was, you know, in love with."