Belonging Is Not About Bypassing Crises

"I'm kind of horrified that my book is in the self-help category just because it buys into that. And I acknowledge that, you know, myself needs a lot of help." Can we have both? Do we don't have to make ourselves a problem in order to aspire towards transformation? "We cannot only focus on the bright side of belonging. We have to embrace the dark side as well," she says.