I Don't Know Have Ideal Comfort

The message in society is like, you need to be more rational and less emotional. And women get the same thing - they're told 'don't cry' Women are granted permission to feel sad which is why women get to cry. This message is the source of a white woman's tears. So we use it as a racest weapon, too. It all gets so much more complicated when we add rayse to it. I think, sorry, i don't mean to like weaponbe like asume. But  as a white lady like i know that like, the my cultural, gendered message that i'm permitted to feel sad gets turned into a way for me to manipulate