Is Violence a Component?

Jeffrey Toobin: As an effective defender, you are cultivating and securing an environment of physical, emotional and social comfort and security. He says his wife is an entrepreneur who has her own healthcare business but she's not a great communicator. So he helped her talk through the whole situation and get a better frame. And then I set her up with someone to coach her through the wrath. That's a good example of being an effective provider as a larger subset of tender defender or defender.