In this episode, we welcome back relationship expert Alison Armstrong. We explore the profound journey of male development, the transition from knights to princes and eventually kings. We delve into the concept of 'the tunnel,' a challenging phase between princehood and kingship marked by self-awareness, shame, and the necessity of personal responsibility and forgiveness. Alison also touches on the deeply complex and often interconnected dynamics of male ambition, fulfillment, and the need for adventure. We extend to the rare shift some men make from kings to elders, highlighting significant changes in ambition and responsibility.
Today on Bridging Connections:
00:00 Introduction: Self-Betrayal and Shame
00:38 Welcome to Bridging Connections
01:10 Reintroducing Alison Armstrong
01:55 Understanding the Tunnel
03:03 Stages of Men's Development
03:49 Navigating the Tunnel
23:29 The Importance of Adventure
31:15 The Prince Stage
38:07 Anticipation and Initial Reflections
38:56 Navigating Personal Loss and Challenges
40:35 Understanding the Tunnel of Transformation
41:11 Self-Betrayal and Awareness
49:07 The Role of Shame and Anger
49:51 Ownership and Forgiveness
55:28 Emerging from the Tunnel
58:18 Grieving and Moving Forward
01:00:54 Transitioning to Elderhood
01:11:21 Final Thoughts and Resources
Resources:
Alison Armstrong: Chemistry and Connection Series - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3kRxLdJODq54hzbmGHKz5VhTQun5bQuy&feature=shared
Connect with Alison:
• Website: alisonarmstrong.com
• Youtube Channel: AlisonArmstrongVideos
• Resources: Sample Understanding Women
Connect with Bryan & Tait:
• Website: bryanreeves.com
• Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08
