
Bruce Tift: Buddhism Meets Psychotherapy
Sounds True: Insights at the Edge
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How Are You Doing? Yeah. If I'm Not Committed to Having a Kind Relationship With My Pain, I'll Try to Get Rid of Your Pain
If I'm not committed to having a kind relationship with my pain, I definitely don't want to hear about your pain. If we are aggressive to our vulnerability, we will be aggressive to the person who's triggering that vulnerability. And so a lot of especially work with couples turns out to be pretty straightforward in that if we can be kind to the pain that our partners are guaranteed to provoke in us, then potentially we can bekind to that person who's trigger those feelings.
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