A friend of mine came to me and said, i'm worried about you, relly. And when you have someone who cares about you offer you that safety net, it gives you courage to solve your problems. That me the courage to not only talk about, but go and figure out what was going wrong with me. The way the speaking started. I would literally and in some one's apartment in new york city. You know, the people would sit on the floor around the bed, and i would talk about this thing called the wy. So for my listeners who might not have read start with why? Why should they starting with why?