We Deserve the Relationships That We Want

"We deserve to be met in our relationships," she says. "It's just that the complaining or the making the case, or pressuring or pushing, or constantly bringing it up over and over again, doesn't actually help anybody solve problems." 'I want to say that again, complaining and trying to force your way into somebody, or making a case for why things should be different, or whatever it is, explaining it calmly, does not help figure out why it's not happening'