Gillert: The worst moment in my prime ministership was not, in and of itself, a gendered remark. A shock jock said to this audience that my father had died of shame. Ah, because he was ashamed of me as prime minister. That's appalling. It is appalling. I mean, you don't expect to have to do that in your life. You know, someone like my mother, who's just a lovely woman ... i should have to tolerate that being said about a the husband she's just lost.