The To-Do List Trap: Why You Can’t Relax
Calmly Coping
Intro
This chapter explores the struggle of high achievers who feel they must complete every task before allowing themselves to relax. The speaker offers insights on overcoming this mindset, encouraging listeners to prioritize their personal needs without feelings of guilt.
Have you ever told yourself, “Once I finish everything on my list, then I’ll relax”... only to find that the list never actually ends? It’s like you’re chasing the finish line, but it keeps moving further away. And when you do finally pause, instead of feeling peace, you feel guilt—like you haven’t earned your rest yet. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m going to help you break that cycle so you can stop waiting for permission to rest and finally start honoring your needs—without the guilt.
In this episode, you will learn:
- Why you constantly feel the need to finish everything before you can rest—and why that’s not serving you.
- How to identify the emotional patterns and beliefs that keep self-care at the bottom of your list.
- A simple, therapist-informed 4-step method to help you shift from productivity guilt to intentional rest and balance.
Mentioned in episode:
How to Set Boundaries with Work: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/work-boundaries/
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Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within.
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Want more?
👩🏽💻 Work with me: My mission is to help you decrease your anxiety, declutter your mind, and say hello to a life of calm and balance. Learn more about my coaching, therapy, and course offerings here: https://becalmwithtati.com/work-with-me
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My favorite tools:
🧘🏽♀️ Mindfulness Meditation App*: https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/x97kyd
✅ Todoist To-Do List App*: https://get.todoist.io/8e7o0ay8n081
🕊️ Moonbird (Handheld Breathing Coach)*: https://calmlycoping.com/moonbird
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Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead
Disclaimer
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