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I Love You, but I Want You to Wash the Dishes
"I saw this pattern of men that would behave badly with me, but then it would be like, but I love you," she said. "They learned grandiose if you behave badly, a grandiose gesture will fix it." She says there's a fine line between asking for what you want in relationship and scripting your relationship to the point where when they do what you want them to do, you don't believe it was because they wanted to.