Hold Me Tight
What You Will Learn
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Do We Love Our Partners?
If we love our partners, why couldn't we just hear what the other person's saying? Hear their calls for attention and connection and then respond with something a little bit caring rather than just a tip for tat digging at each other? Well, let's think about the two superstar names that pop up in every book, Carol and Jim. They are the superheroes of nonfiction books. But when they're attack withdraw sort of pattern, they get into way of dealing things,. It spills into other issues like we don't talk and we don't have sex or whatever it might be. What they do is they end up in this terrible loop where it's sort of like a negative feedback loop
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