Why? Why dosy keep happening? No, i'm calm. I'm i'm being careful. I'm trying to be clear. Can you please explain yourself? I'm not trying to publicly shame you here. Instead, i'm trying to help you vocalize, which requires putting some thought into it. And how would i explain myself here? As i said before, my wife is an addiction recovery councellor, and she was working at one facility with one a bunch of wonderful clients that had gotten themselves into deep holes nd and real messes, and were trying diligently and valiantly to to come out of of those pits. And my wife described a fascinating thing that reminded me, hat this verse reminded me of, you see, a loto where she, the time that she spends is impatient facilities where people are living on sight to fully remove themselves from the alcohol or substance abuse problems that are out there. It gives them a chance to get their feet underneath them. And whether it takes a month or two to build a little bit of momentum in hopes that they are ready to be able to go back out and face the influences that will surround them. Well, there are all kinds of rules that need to be followed, and many of them are to protect the clients from themselves and from others, as far as temptation is concerned. And and so there's all kinds of ret and pluster. We're all living under the same roof, and so we got to learn how to deal with things. And we're all going through really hard things and d talks and trying to get asome some movement towards recovery. It's amazing to hear stories from my wife and my son on his service mission there. It's amazing to see what these people are going through. But there are, like i said, lots of rules. And unfortunately, a lot of times those rules get broken. Well, here's the part that fascinates me. How do youo discipline adults and and how do you help them see the reason for those rules? Well, there's a process that my wife and her team uses that's called giving an awareness. And if somebody does something major or minor, even things like, oh, you didn't clean up after yourself, or you didn't put the dishes away, or youre leaving your room a mess, and that's affecting the other people that that to have to live here with you, there's this they give them an awareness.