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457 - Creating Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

CHAPTER

Redefining the Spark: Spontaneous Desire vs. Responsive Desire

This chapter challenges the traditional notion of 'keeping the spark alive' and discusses the concept of spontaneous desire and responsive desire in sexual relationships. The speaker emphasizes the importance of pleasure and explores different types of desire, including magnificent desire. They also discuss the potential negative consequences of forcing oneself to have sex when not genuinely interested.

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