Is He Emotionally Abusive?

"I don't know if he is emotionally abusive or not, but certainly these women in his life that arequte crazy are probably going crazy after the relationship begins," she says. "It tells me a lot that if all his partners are crazy, and you probably feel like you're going crazy trying to get your needs met as well." She adds: "Can those co exist? They can. But the problem is you have to accept the parts that you don't like, and that might mean violating your own values"