8: Your Anxious Attachment Is Ruining Your Relationships
BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko
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The Fear of Abandonment
People with an anxious attachment style are fearful that any actions will inevitably lead to the demise of their relationship. A core to it is a feeling of unwilliness that you've always got to prove yourself to be neat, like needed and useful and somehow important. You have low self esteem, you have sensitivity to others' opinions and what they say, things hurt you. And lastly, and this is the saddest part, I guess, you tolerate unhealthy relationships as much as you go on about all these red flags and signs. If you were securely attached, you would not persist with this person and asking them all these things.
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