Why Parents Don't Matter What I Do

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When Judith Rich Harris' book, The Nurture Assumption Came Out, and then it was all this kind of national hand-ringing, what do you mean, parents don't matter? And it's like, well, hang on. But just put another point on that. Of course, it matters what you're doing right now today with your child because they need to be loved and have a nice day and a nice week and so on. It also reminds me a little bit when Dan Gilbert was talking about this before his happiness book came out,. He made some comment about having children doesn't make you happier. In fact, it makes parents less happy.

Shermer and Schulz discuss: an operational definition of the “good life” or “happiness” or “well being” • the reliability (or unreliability) of self-report data in social science • relative roles of genes, environment, hard work, and luck in how lives turn out • personality and to what extent it can be scientifically measured and studied • factors in early childhood that shape mental health in mid and late life • generational differences: • the impact of loneliness • misconceptions about happiness • what social fitness is and how to exercise it • what most people get wrong about achievement, and more…

Marc Schulz is the associate director of the Harvard Study of Adult Development and the Sue Kardas PhD 1971 Chair in Psychology at Bryn Mawr College. He also directs the Data Science Program and previously chaired the psychology department and Clinical Developmental Psychology PhD program at Bryn Mawr. Dr. Schulz received his BA from Amherst College and his PhD in clinical psychology from the University of California at Berkeley. He is a practicing therapist with postdoctoral training in health and clinical psychology at Harvard Medical School. His new book, co-authored with Robert Waldinger, is The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness.