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#020: Boundaries. Boundaries. Boundaries. with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

The Mark Groves Podcast

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How to Hold Onto the Intro Psychic and Relational in a Couple's Dance

When you approach any sort of conversation not just a boundary but any conversation with your partner that is framed in a way that instantly puts them on the defense. If they're spending their time defending themselves instead of listening and connecting to you then you're not gonna get there's no boundary happening. That kind of stuff just creates this big like dust bubble or dust what would it be? Dust storm. And so as a couples therapist you have to figure out where you're gonna kind of like angle your lens at any particular moment. This is the way of napping out a couple's dance so you can hold onto the u-stuff and the we stuff.

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