How Can You Help a Child Who Can't Handle Something?

How can you help a child who's convinced they can handle something, or they can't learn the s to handle it? We we have to show them otherwies, right? And so we're not going to tell them. There's a few different things. I think it just depends on what it is. Let's see, it's writing. I'm just going to take something super easy. I can't write. 's one of the thinking traps. Once they feel successful, guess what? We can put that over and write it into success.