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The Good Girl or the Good Boy
Good girls and good boys have a terrible time setting boundaries because they know my boundaries are going to disappoint people. So there's a lot of shudding, which is very, very heavily informed by shame. And so the good girl or the good boy's worst fear is being seen as bad and wrong. Their other worst fear is disappointing people because they are massive, massive people pleasers. You're not sharing the full potency of your medicine, your message and your magic because one, you're terrified that it's going to disappoint them.