Vulnerability looks different for men than it does for women, or maybe i'm wrong. I think that in relationships, it might seem as though i'm not being vulnerable, but that's only because you can't. And so typically people who struggle with vulnerability, ah, sometimes they will allso they will give a lot, because it actually helps theme stay in control. Am, will you receive help? Are you comfortable with letting people do things for you, helping you, giving you favors? Yes, you area right.