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How to Not Die Alone - A Dating Experts Guide

Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal

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Relationships Are Things That You Build, Not Things You Discover

A lot of maxmeisers come to me when they're already dating in a pretty small pool of people, all of whom would make great ners. They think the fact that i don't feel a hundred % sure about anyone means that i need to keep looking. So really with maximisers, want to help them switch their minds sat from, if i keep looking, i'll find the perfect person too. Relationships are things that you build, not things that you discover. And so life is much more about having high standards, finding somebody or something that meets that standard and then feeling good about the decision,. versus the maximiser. Mine said, of i'm obsessed with making the

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