How to Embrace the Selfish Side of Being Selfish

If you see a trait or quality in another human being that you have a gut, strong, violent response to you, that is something you have in you. We always see ourselves without knowing it, and we don't like it. So if somebody's being particularly narcissistic, lots of mirrors, or let me get my ass in the shop,. That means you might be the narcissist. You can tell if you have too much of a strong reaction if other people when you verbalize it, look at you like, hmm, chill out. It would be what was a water for ducks back if you saw that and you so couldn't align yourself with that. And then you need to